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How Much to Give Cleaning Lady for Christmas

The holidays are a time for showing your appreciation, and in many cases, that means monetary gratitude. But how much is appropriate to give? And who in your life deserves a little acknowledgement?

Short answer? Common sense, specific circumstances, and holiday spirit should always be your guide. But of course, there's a longer answer too. Given the challenging circumstances this year due to the Covid-19 pandemic, if you can be a little extra generous to those who work in service industries, consider doing so.

General Tipping Etiquette

First, consider these factors, courtesy of the Emily Post Institute:

  • The quality and frequency of the service you receive.
  • Your relationship with the service provider.
  • Your location—tipping averages tend to be higher in larger cities.
  • The number of years you've been using the service.
  • Your budget: You should never feel obligated to go beyond what you can reasonably afford.

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  • If your budget does not allow for tips, consider homemade gifts (but this year, maybe skip the baked goods) or a genuine and heartfelt thank you note.
  • Any gift or tip should always be accompanied by a short handwritten note of appreciation.
  • Do you already tip regularly? If you tip at the time of service, you may forego an end of the year tip, or give a more modest holiday thank you.

  • How Much Should You Be Tipping

    Below, a handy guide to holiday tipping using information gleaned from the Emily Post Institute and Sharon Schweitzer, an etiquette expert, author, and the founder of Protocol & Etiquette Worldwide:
    Full-time domestic help (cook, nanny, personal caregiver, or butler): Between a week to a month's pay, plus a gift
    Housekeeper : If they come once a week, the equivalent of a day's pay, or $50. If they come daily, the equivalent of a week's pay, and possibly a gift
    Barber/Hairdresser: Up to the cost of one haircut or a gift
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    Beauty Salon Staff: Up to the cost of one salon visit divided for each staff member who works with you
    Babysitter: Up to one evening's pay and a small gift from your children
    Day Care Provider: $25 to $70 for each staff member who works with your children and a small gift from your children
    Personal Trainer: Up to the cost of one session or a gift
    Newspaper Delivery Person: Between $10 to $30, or give a small gift
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    • USPS Policy: Gifts cannot exceed $50 per calendar year. Giving cash, VISA, MasterCard, or gift cards that may be used as cash are prohibited per USPS's Employee Tipping and Gift Receiving Policy.
    • UPS Policy: UPS does not have a limit; tipping is left to customer's discretion.
    • FedEx Policy: Company policies discourage gift cash or gift cards. The driver will politely decline the holiday gratuity. If the customer is insistent, the driver may ultimately accept the gift.

    Teacher: Consider a group gift with parents' pooled funds

    Gardener: Equivalent of a week's pay

    Pool Cleaner: Equivalent of one session, divided among the crew.

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    Garage Attendant: Between $10 and $40, or a small gift

    Garbage/Recycling: If your city permits, $10 to $30 each for extra holiday effort

    Doorman: Between $50 to $100 each, or gift, depending on extra duties

    Elevator Operator and Handyman: Between $20 to $50 each

    Building Superintendent: $20 to $80 or a gift

    Dog walker

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    Pet Groomer: Up to the cost of one session or a gift

    Dog Walker: Up to one week's pay or a gift

    Massage Therapist: Up to the cost of one session or a gift

    Here's Who You Can Skip (Send a Holiday Card Instead)

    • Accountant/CPA
    • Attorney
    • Auditor
    • Banker
    • Bookkeeper
    • Doctor, Dentist
    • Executive Coach
    • Members, Board of Directors or Trustees
    • Seamstress/ Tailor
    • Veterinarian

      Contributing Digital Editor Sam Dangremond is a Contributing Digital Editor at Town & Country, where he covers men's style, cocktails, travel, and the social scene.

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